Every sexual relationship is different. However, some sexual fetishes are very different, and this is one of them. It turns out relationships that experiment with cuckolding are very much on the rise, and psychologists can’t quite figure out why. Theories abound everywhere, but the men and women taking part in the world of cuckolding don’t really care why they like it, they just do. On top of that, more and more people are discovering cuckolding as something they like, if Google searches for the fetish are any indication. Online communities about the fetish are popping up all the time, and existing ones are growing exponentially. If this is a fetish you find yourself drawn to, you’re definitely not alone. Real people do this all the time, and many of them have shared their stories online. Here’s everything you’d ever want to know about cuckolding, from the perspective of those who take part in it. Have you ever taken part in a cuckolding fantasy? Did you like it?
Evidently, 2017 is the year of the cuckold. For those who don’t know what cuckolding is, it’s the sexual fetish where men allow other men to have sex with their wives or girlfriends. They don’t get jealous, watching or even just knowing about it turns them on. Sometimes they do get jealous, but the jealousy in itself is arousing.
No one’s sure why this is becoming a thing right now.Psychologists believe that the underlying reason for it could be anything from latent male bisexuality to taking pride in the liberated sexualities of their wives. The men who are into it have even less of an idea, they just know that they like it.
Online communities all about cuckolding are all over the place. Most of them are filled with men talking about their various exploits and adventures being cuckolded by their wives. Some men even talk about how they arrived at the fact that they liked this. A lot of men end up keeping it a secret for years before letting their wives in on it. Reddit, in particular, has a huge community for this.
One wife even told a story about how she ended up with a husband…and a boyfriend. “I called my husband that night shaking like a leaf,” the woman admits. “Not only was he ecstatic, he wanted details, photos (none was taken), and the whole story when he got home. When he got home, I told him everything and it aroused him so much, we had amazing sex.” Six months later, she found herself with both a husband and a boyfriend, and she couldn’t be happier.
Another man told a story about the game he plays with his wife. The game entails his wife being allowed to sleep with one other man at a time, and she can’t switch to someone else more than once a month. “Here is the fun part,” he explained, “She can’t let me catch her or she can’t f*** that guy for three months.”
One thread on the subreddit Explains Like I’m Five asked this very question. Reddit user ttmab7 asked what cuckolding was all about, and a lot of guys came forward to explain why they do it and what they like about it. Reddit user AnonSecrets described his own experience with cuckolding: “I’ve been into cuckold fantasies for a couple years. I finally told my girlfriend about it, and a few nights ago she slept with another guy. I was really worried that it was just a fantasy, and that afterward, I would feel jealous, disgusted, or angry. But I didn’t. She sent me pictures of them together and looking at them, I just felt extremely aroused and excited.”
One man said it all had to do with playing with power. Reddit user losingitwithstyle was happy to be able to answer one of the questions on Explain Like I’m Five with his own reasons why he was into it. “Humiliation Fetishes can come alot of the time from Men or Women who are in positions of great power thru work or social status. They manifest these fetishes by switching roles and going to the other end of the spectrum, Who was once given everything on a silver platter, never told no or never ever put down can become quite aroused by the role reverse.”