He loves me, he loves me not…it takes more than flower petal picking to know whether your man really digs you or not. But rest assured if your man is really head over heels, there 8 things that you can pretty much bet on him doing consistently.
#1. He Listens To You Carefully.
They say attention and showing up at the moment is the highest form of respect you can pay towards someone. So it makes sense that if your man really loves you he will be attending to what you’re saying and seeking to understand what you are trying to get across in conversation.
If your man regularly asks you about your life, your opinions and thoughts you can pretty much rest assured that he highly values your input and influence in his life. That’s a keeper, girl!
#2. He Fights With You.
You are human beings. There will be times where you will disagree as a couple. What it comes down to is when your man cares enough to not shut down but to actively work through the frustration to find a resolution than you know he is in it for real.
If your man shuts down and begins to find anything and everything to pay attention to but you when there is discomfort in the air than chances are he doesn’t prioritize you enough on the list to step out of his comfort zone in order to resolve things. Look for a man who will actively work through an argument to constructively bring it to an end.
#3. He Makes Sacrifices For Your Happiness.
When you are committed to another, the rubber meets the road when you find a healthy balance of compromise. After all, you only have so much time in the day. If your man takes his time and energy to be with you when he has other things he could be doing, know that is a tell-tale sign he pretty much loves ya.
#4. He Fights For Your Love.
He realizes that there will be winters as well as summers in your relationship and weathers through it all. He determines to find a way to be there for you with support and love whether the sun’s out or the rain has come to stay for a bit.
He feels fortunate to have you in his life and so will do everything to keep that a priority. When it becomes not so easy, he finds ways to meet you half-way and to molds to the change.